Don’t stay single because you’re scared of falling in love.
Because you’re scared of getting attached.
Because you’re scared of something real.
Rustem Baltiyev
You cant keep your guard up forever.
You cant push away everyone who tries to get close to you.
You might feel like youre protecting yourself by isolating yourself but youre only making yourself feel lonelier.
Once in a while, you oughta take a risk and let other people into your world.
Express your opinions to them.
Speak your thoughts and desires aloud.
You dont have to hold back but you dont have to spill your whole heart at once either.
you could move slowly.
you might take things one step at a time.
Dont stay single because youre scared of losing your independence.
You dont have to act codependent once youre in a committed relationship.
you’re free to have your own lives.
you’re free to have your own friends, your own hobbies, your own careers.
You dont have to spend every waking moment together.
You dont have to rely on your person to bring you happiness or a sense of peace.
you’re free to maintain your independence, even when youre dating the love of your life.
A relationship doesnt mean you lose your freedom.
It doesnt mean you stop beingyou.
Dont stay single because youre scared of rejection.
Not everyone is going to like you.
Not everyone is going to give you a chance.
Sometimes youre going to get turned down but thats not an indication of your worth.
It doesnt mean youre unlovable.
It doesnt mean you should give up hope of finding your happily ever after.
It simply means you havent found the right person yet.
Rejection might sting, but it will bring you closer to the person youre meant to discover.
Dont stay single because youre scared of getting betrayed.
They arent going to hurt you the way youve been hurt in the past.
you gotta learn to trust others, even though theyre imperfect.
Even though they might lie to you.
Even though they might cheat.
Yes, you could get hurt, but sometimes love is worth that risk.
Sometimes you better push aside your fears and give someone a shot.
Dont stay single because youre scared of getting abandoned.
The relationship might not last, but that doesnt mean you wasted your time with that person.
It doesnt mean you never should have let them into your world.
Some connections are temporary, but they are still meaningful.
They are still worthwhile.
You might learn something from them.
You might grow while youre with them.
You might not regret them at all, even if they dont linger for long.
Dont stay single because youre scared of falling in love.
Because youre scared of getting attached.
Because youre scared of something real.
Theres a chance you stay with this person forever.
