But it takes guys a little bit longer to realize it.
So then I got to wondering, if thats the case why do people lose each other at all?
Over time it becomes just another relationship thats ended.
God & Man
Ego and pride overtake genuine feelings leading to a silence that goes from days to weeks to months.
Then you realize this person who you knew better than anyone becomes a stranger.
We break each others hearts by hiding the things we feel.
The moments of vulnerability.
The moments we wish we could say something.
The moments we want to make it right.
Only no one takes that step.
We are waiting for the other person to make the first move.
Thats how you become strangers with someone you loved and cared about.
The answer is yes.
How could she not miss someone like you?
The truth is shes trying to just keep busy to keep her mind off of you.
And she does everything to distract herself from the pain she feels.
She misses you even if shes not saying it.
So if you miss her too…
Say something.
Dont lose someone who cares about you because she still does.
And she probably always will.
Because the truth is she misses you too.
Shes just trying to be strong.
The truth is she followed her heart and it led her to dead end alone.
Now shes following her head but all of it is unnatural to someone like her.
All of it is her fighting against herself because she thinks if you missed her, youd say something.
But all it is are close friends asking how shes doing.
Shes trying to be strong.
But everything about you being gone brings her to her knees, as she tosses and turns at night.
She doesnt want to invest time, emotion and energy into someone who doesnt miss her too.
So shes trying to put on a brave face.
But its killing her to be this strong.Its killing her to not hear from you.
Its killing her to miss you like she does.
But she doesnt think you care.
She doesnt think you give a half a shit.
Why miss someone who doesnt miss you?
But I know you miss her too.
I know youre wondering whats she up to these days.
You didnt just impact her life, she impacted yours too.
I know you miss telling her things.
I know you miss the hour conversations that made days go by quicker.
You miss her insight.
You miss seeing something and sending it to her.
Now everything you look at reminds you of her.
I know you miss the time you spent together as those memories play on repeat in your mind.
Its the little things that creep up.
Each of you are waiting.
Each of you still cares.
But each of you are doing nothing about it.
You didnt just come into each others lives to become another sad story you each regret.
You are so much more than that.
You are so much better than that.
And I know you still care.
I know you miss her too.
