Having someone to laugh and cry and yell and grow with is amazing and confusing and wonderful.
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Updated 6 years ago,June 22, 2019
I never considered myself a relationship person before.
It just wasnt appealing, the thought of having to surrender some form of independence to somebody else.
Sophia Sinclair
I thought being in a relationship meant I was eliminating who I was just to kindly someone else.
Turns out, sometimes you do end up doing just that.
Turns out, when they are good and healthy, relationships truly can be quite amazing.
Plus, theyre just downright fun sometimes.
Having someone to laugh and cry and yell and grow with is amazing and confusing and wonderful.
After the last one ended, I wasnt sure where I would land.
Is this something I would want again?
If I did, what would it look like?
Understand that most things about my last relationship were actually quite ideal, save for a few.
Next time, I want to do more things together.
I want togoplaces with somebody.
Explore the world, explore my surroundings, and explore the interests we both have.
I want an adventurous soul that inspires me to be fun, someone whoencouragesthat.
I hope the next person is able to voice what is going on in their mind.
Im excited for someone who sees all the things I could be and all the things I already am.
It doesnt have to be life changing, but I want a sense of magic.
And I want to encourage them to see that.
I want someone whose independence I can trust and who encourages that sense of freedom in me as well.
If you dont know who you are without them, how could you ever be something with them?
Im excited for something new and different.
Who knows the person I could become or the things I could learn this time.
Im willing to try and find out.
