You dont have to end up like your parents.
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Updated 5 years ago,August 11, 2020
1.Its okay to disappoint your parents.
Its not okay to disappoint yourself.
Daria Shevtsova
2.Dont believe everything you read in self-help books.
Theyre simply guidelines, not the map to your happiness.
That is something you create on your own.
4.You are doing so much better than you think.
5.You care so much about what these people think, but what do you think of them?
Do you even like them?
6.You dont just suddenly love your body when youre skinny.
7.He doesnt know how to love you and its not your job to teach him.
8.We all do bad thingsthe point is to learn the lessons from doing these bad things.
Regretting them does nothing.
Apologizing doesnt mean anything unless you have actually learned from the problem.
9.You cant love someone without loving yourself.
it’s possible for you to have a relationship, of course.
10.It becomes a problem when you use the substance to fill a void.
11.Sometimes we have to ignore our minds and listen to our bodies instead.
12.You dont have to end up like your parents.
13.We all have our own strengths.
Youre a writer, so dont compare yourself to a painter.
And when you compare yourself to another writer, find inspirationnot criticism.
14.Your kindness will get you further than anger ever will.
15.Letting someone walk all over you is a disservice to both you and them.
16.Write every day and years from now, read it all to see how much youve grown.
17.You cant force someone to feel something for you.
You deserve someone who feels that way all on their own, without you having to convince them.
18.There will be days that you cant get out of bed and sometimes its better that you dont.
19.The more you focus on the negative, the more negative you will see.
20.Listening to music is a form of meditation.
21.Its okay to go at your own pace, as long as youre still moving.
22.Let people be miserable.
Its not up to you to alter their moods.
Just check that they dont alter yours.
24.Your flaws make you who you are.
Perfect people are boring.
25.I promise your reality can be just as interesting as the scenarios you make up in your head.
You just have to put in the effort to create it that way.
26.There will be times that your job is boring.
There will be times that your relationship is boring.
That doesnt mean you should move onto another job or another person.
It takes a personal effort to make the things in your life more interesting.
27.Im not here to save you.
Im here to help you save yourself.
28.People will care if youre not around.
29.Other women are not your competition.
They are your allies.
30.Once you accept yourself for who you are, other peoples opinions wont even matter.
