This could be beautiful, or it could crash and burn.
But would you rather hold back and spend the remainder of your days wondering what could have been?
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Updated 8 years ago,August 1, 2017
Fall in love with the wrong one.
Sabina Ciesielska
Maybe without knowing whether this person is right for you.
Maybe with a glimpse of truth in the back of your mind, and simply not caring at all.
Maybe because you werent thinking.
Maybe because you had no fear.
Maybe because you decided to take a step in faith.
Whatever your reason, I hope you dont regret it one bit.
Sabina Ciesielska
I hope you learn that its okay to fall for the wrong person, good even.
I hope you let go and fall freely into love.
I hope you stop feeling like you have to understand relationships completely before stepping into one.
I hope you stop trying to manipulate love into something it’s possible for you to control.
Because youll never find real love if you dont try loving.
If you dontlet people in.
Because you never will know unless you try.
Fall in love with the wrong one.
With the person who seems right, but doesnt end up matching the rhythm of your heart.
With the one who makesmistakes.
You must always remember that love is imperfect, but that doesnt mean settling for less.
That doesnt mean giving your affection away in desperation, in loneliness, in foolishness.
But not so much that you lose out on the maybes on the possibility of love.
They may not be the right one.
They may let you down.
They may leave you broken in the end, if and when that end comes.
But what else is our purpose in this earth than to love?
To have human connections with one another?
Maybe they turn out terribly wrong.
But is there really a wrong person?
Maybe they wont become your forever.
Maybe theyll treat you like dirt.
Maybe theyll stomp on your heart and leave you in the dust.
In that relationship, you will learn what you deserve.
You will learn who you were.
You will learn what you need and that its not with him or her.
You will learn to ready yourself for the right one in loving the wrong one.
You will learn who you are and will become.
And you will learn that life is all about risk and chance and trust.
So dont regret anyone you love or let in.
