Nope, not even The One.
None of these things will magically turn your life into the fairytale that you have hoped for.
Yes, it may enrich your soul and certain aspects of your life, but fix it?
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Not even one bit.
The truth is, they cant touch them even though they want to.
They cant destroy them, even though they want to do so badly.
Finding the one wont fix you.
They cant, simply because it isnt their problem to fix.
Its yours and yours only.
What they can do instead?
The special ones in our life can carve out peaceful spaces between our chaotic messiness.
They will be there for us, but they cant fix us.
We are only able to begin healing when we erase all external factors as options to fix ourselves.
Once again, a job is not an option.
A hobby is not an option.
A soulmate is not an option either.
These are all external factors that we need to depend on if we want to begin our healing journey.
And the tricky thing is, external factors are always temporary and rarely secure in the long run.
On the other hand, internal factors are always solid and most reliable in the long run.
It is solid in the sense that you will always be there.
The only person you cant run away from is yourself.
You are the only one aware and knowing how it feels to be you.
Tune in to your norms and values and live according to it.
Align your norms with your values.
For example, if one of your desired values is honesty, double-check that your actions show that too.
It doesnt have to be drastic changes all at once.
Begin small and start to implement it in everyday life by being honest with your words and actions.
Those same traits that made you believe in them often reveal your own norms and values.
