They aren’t under the impression that they are perfect – but they know they are worth it.
They never let their self-worth depend on a boy.
It doesnt make them question their own worth.

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It doesnt trick them into believing that they deserved to be treated that way.
They dont need a relationship status so you can feel like they are important.
They dont need male attention to feel validated.

Whether they have been single for two months or for two years, they never wonder iftheyare the problem.
They know they are a catch.
So when someone breaks their heart, they believe that it is his loss.

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These girls love themselves, but that doesnt mean they are blind to their flaws.
They realize that there are parts of their personality that they could improve.
They understand that they are a work in progress.
They arent under the impression that they are perfect but they know they are worth it.
They know that a boy who lies and cheats and plays the field is beneath them.
That they have earned someone who is honest, trustworthy, smart, funny, and strong.
Someone who they can be proud to call their boyfriend.
Someone they can say was worth the long wait.
Until they find someone like that, these girls arent embarrassed to admit that they are still single.
They are proud that they have created a successful life all on their own.
To them, being single isnt a punishment.
It isnt a sign that they are doing worse than their friends who are already married.
Being single doesnt mean they are any less beautiful orintelligentor interesting than other girls.
It only means that they havent found the right person yet.
Thats the thing about girls who are always single.
Because toxic relationships are worse than being single.
Despite what some people assume, girls who are always single arent insecure.
They dont hate themselves for beingunlovableandlonely.
The truth of the matter is they love themselvesso muchthat they wont settle for anything less than they deserve.