I dont need a friend to help with homework, Ill find a tutoring center.
I dont need a friend to give me advice, Im probably better off seeking professional advice.
I am so so happy, and in a great place.
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I am attending university full-time, working on my career, and have so much free time to myself.
You may wonder what I do during my free time now that I have no friends.
I can definitely tell you that my free time feels more relaxing, and definitely is way cheaper.
I have more me time.
It gets tiring being the tissue box after a while.
You cant pour from an empty cup.
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I save more money.
I remember when I had friends, I would see them every weekend.
Our usual routine was to go out to eat, maybe see a movie, and/or go to thebar.
A typical night could have cost me about $20-50.
Its not just the monetary value you spent, but the time.
That time could have been put to more useful things like working or working towards a goal.
I dont need to seek approval from others, I am my own biggest resource now.
Honestly, you dont need that at all.
If you cant lean on yourself, thats a problem.
I understand sometimes we may need some help here and there.
I think that results in being too occupied in being there for others.
It results in a vicious cycle that makes you always be in a position of need.
