You have to listen to your heart over your history.

It doesnt matter how well a person treated you in the past.

It doesnt matter how many warm and fuzzy memories you have with them.

Having History With Them Doesn’t Mean You Should Have A Future With Them

Allef Vinicius

What matters is how they treat you today.

What matters is whether yourehappywith them today.

Every relationship is going to have speedbumps.

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There are going to be arguments.

There are going to be doubts.

However, you should be growing together, not growing apart.

Some people are only meant to be temporary stops along your journey.

Theyre not meant to stay with you forever.

Theres nothing wrong with walking away from someone who once meant the world to you.

But you have to listen to your heart over your history.

You have to do what is best for the future you, not the old you.

Youre only putting off the inevitable.

Youre only taking away your chance (and your persons chance) to discover something new and exciting.

Remember, you dont owe this person your heart, simply because you gave it to them years ago.

If you want to leave, then you shouldnt let anything stop you.

Having history with someone doesnt mean youre stuck with them forever.

Youre not the same person you were yesterday, so you dont have to fulfillthatpersons dreams.

Fulfill your own dreams.

Do whatever thecurrentyou desires.

Forget about what you wanted in the past and focus on what you want right now.

Ask yourself what would makeyouthe happiest.

Whatever you do, dont let your history with someone convince you to overstay your welcome.

If you are ready to leave, then youre allowed to go.

You arent trapped in your current situation.

You arent obligated to keep trying to fix whats broken long after you realize the job is impossible.

Youll both have the chance to grow without each other.

Youll have the opportunity to find the place where you really belong.