Believe me when I say there is no such thing as the one who got away.

You just met someone you deeply connected with and it didnt work out at the end.

Unfortunately, things didnt work out.

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Marcus P.

And every time you think of him, you believe he wasthe one that got away.

If you cant stop thinking about the one that got away, youre not alone.

Its really hard trying to move on from what feels like an unfinished relationship.

We sometimes torture ourselves fantasizing how things could have been.

And we cant get over the fact that something so magical banished right before our eyes.

We blame timing, circumstances, and ourselves.

We are filled with maybes.

Maybe things were moving too fast.

Maybe he had too much going on in his life.

Maybe he just wasnt in the right place to be in a relationship.

Maybe we will meet again in the future, and maybe then we will be right for each other.

Or maybe I did something that made him leave.

You have so many doubts, and you cant stop yourself from thinking about him.

You wonder what could have happened if the stars were aligned in the right place.

Or the circumstances were right.

And quite frankly, I dont believe that.

You see, people put the effort into people they truly want.

A love that is meant to last doesnt go away.

The right man for you wont push away when things get too serious.

The right man wont see your mistakes or flaws are deal-breakers.

When a man sees that youre everything he has ever wanted, hell stick with you.

No one or anything will push him away.

Wondering what could have been will only keep you living in the past.

Let go of the past.

Thinking about the past is not healthy.

Holding on to someone who already let you go is not healthy.

Stop playing scenarios in your head on how things should have panned out.

Dont waste your time and tears on someone who abandoned you when your feelings got stronger.

Open your eyes and face the reality.

Yes, you met someone special, and this person made you feel magic.

And remember, he is the one who got awaybecause the right one is on his way.