Good news: you probably dont need physical items to accomplish this.
Have no idea what your loved ones primary love language is?
Fear not you’re able to find out any time you want.
Roberto Nickson
By, ya know, this little thing called asking…
Yes, that means being a little vulnerable and taking some time to connect with them.
All in the name of love.
you might also bring up the five love languages (theyll be so impressed!)
),put it into action.
Do somethingfor them that you know they would like or that you know would be helpful to them.
Bonus if you leave a cute note for them or a hot thermos of coffee.
If you know theyre especially stressed at work, offer to help them.
Bake their favorite dessert, even (and especially) if youre not an expert in the kitchen.
They will love the fact that you made an attempt!
Sign them up for a dance or cooking class because you know theyredyingto try it.
Express your love, gratitude, affection, appreciation, or praise through words.
Write a letter expressing your love and appreciation for them.
Thank them for being an amazing partner or for supporting you the way they do.
Give specific examples to make it extra personal.
Tell them what you love about them.
Pick out quotes that remind you of your love for them.
Write them on post its and put them around their/your place, or write them in a journal.
Express your love and affection through physical touch.
Grab their hand unexpectedly and give it a soft kiss.
Set up a romantic night full of sexual pleasure thats just for them.
Kiss them on their forehead.
Give them a sensual massage theyll never forget.
Hugs and cuddles never go out of style.
Whether or not its winter near you, snuggle up under a blanket with some wine or tea.
Have a quiet chat or watch a movie and enjoy your time together.
Schedule time for just you and your partner(s).
Leave your phone somewhere else, or at least keep it out of sight.
Be fully present; thats the best present of all.
Go for a walk to connect before your crazy holiday dinner with the fam.
Schedule a day to do some of your favorite activities together.
Make time at the end of the day to connect and catch up.
Ask meaningful questions like How have I been as a partner lately?
or How can I support you in being your most happy and fulfilled self?
But make a run at at least make it something meaningful for them.
It always means more with some thought behind it.
Surprise them with something they brought up months ago but have forgotten about (or expected you to).
If theyve lost something precious to them, give a shot to find a replacement.
And remember: the way you want to receive love isnt necessarily how others want to receive it.
