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Updated 6 years ago,March 5, 2019
Imagine watching someone on their first date.
With Netflixs new showDating Around,you see it all, in its rawness and authenticity.
If a man feels the need to interrupt you and belittle you, show him the door.

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Watching this scene made me cringe.
I felt angry, frustrated, impatient.
He is belittling you.

Dont let him make you shrink.
Be like Gurki and tell him, thanks but no thanks, and show him the door.
Sometimes you just dont connect with people andthats okay.

Its okay if you dont connect with someone.
Be honest with yourself and your date and communicate.
If he asks to see you again and youre not necessarily feeling a connection with him, thats okay!

Tell him, youre a nice man, but no thank you.
Even if hes nice, you dont have to force yourself to see him again.
Its okay to say no.

If youre having a good time, maybe tell them thatIm sure itll be reassuring.
Sometimes all you need is yourself.
There will be plenty of first dates in the future, so for now, treat yourself.
