What makes me feel sexy is anything that makes me feel like me.

Whoever it is I want to be that day.

So they went too.

Here’s The Brutally Honest Truth: I Don’t Need You Anymore

Carly Seitz

Despite the limited amount of occasions its actually appropriate for me to wear them, I still love them.

And this process continued for some time, in a similar fashion.

I had even accumulated an obscene amount of hangers from my very regular dry cleaning habit.

I saw the entire decade that stood between then and now.

Styles hadchanged, but more importantly, so had I.

Today I see that same look as something entirely different.

If it feels good, if you like it, great!

My personal definition of sexy today is something much more natural and comfortable and effortless.

It relies more on confidence and individuality than it does on any particular standard of beauty.

These days I feel sexy when I have a good hair day.

I feel sexy in red lipstick, in my tweed blazer.

I feel sexy in a wool coat and sunglasses.

I feel sexy in a button down or blouse and jeans.

I feel sexy tilting a glass of scotch in my hand.

When my roundhouse kick makes the person holding the target pad wobble a little.

When a stranger comes up to me after a comedy show and tells me they thought I was funny.

I know what is or isntme.

I dont need to feel guilty for what Im not.

I dont need to hold onto things for some unforeseen occasion.

Im not waiting to turn into anyone else.

Im not waiting to grow up anymore.Its happened.

I guess thats one possibility Im willing to dedicate a few inches of space to.