Ironically, the guy you attract is often the complete opposite.

Hes calmer, steadier, and more even-keel.

April 21 May 21

Your steadiness is one of the most attractive things about you.

the guy you attract, zodiac sign

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However, you often find yourself in relationships with guys who are struggling.

May 22 June 21

Youre the throw in of person who craves connection.

You love to be around people, to be constantly learning, and to be inspired.

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More often than not, you attract the guy whos putting on a facade.

June 22 July 22

You treat everyone like family.

You have a huge heart and would do anything for the people you love.

the guy you attract, zodiac sign

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Thats why its obvious youattractthe sensitive guy, the kind of guy whos emotional and in-tune with his feelings.

The problem with this is that this guy ends up as a best friend, rather than boyfriend material.

July 23 August 22

You are bold.

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You are a leader, proud and in charge.

This guy isattractedto your big personality and gets easily swept up in your caring, giving arms.

Hes attracted to you because youre everything he needscomfort, security, care, and calm.

September 23 October 22

Your personality is rooted in your need for balance.

You love things to be in order, to make sense, and to be in harmony.

Thats why the guy you attract the most is the guy whos never completely serious about you.

This guy is half-in, half-out.

He sometimes acts like your boyfriend, and sometimes acts like he barely knows you.

Hes independent and self-sufficient.

He doesnt reallyneeda partner, but does enjoy your company.

The problem with this guy, though, is that hes often too distant.

You are able to strike up conversations with ease and have a large group of friends.

Unfortunately, you seem to attract the throw in of guy who just wants to tie you down.

Maybe its because your personality makes you a total catch.

Maybe its because youre everything hes not.

Whatever the reason, the guy you attract is the one who just wants to lock you down.

And for someone like you, who hates being controlled, that is a big no no.

December 22 January 20

Youre the jot down of person who takes life very seriously.

You are a leader, driven and goal-oriented.

Youre often working on something or striving to complete a project.

This guy is the life of the party, the class clown.

January 21 February 19

You are an extremely selfless person.

Youre all about connections and closeness with people.

Which is why you undoubtedly attract the player.

This guy is all about sweet talk and sneakiness.

You fall for his charm because youre willing to be there for people, no questions asked.

Unfortunately, he sees this kindness in you and takes full advantage.

Not everyone is as genuine with their intentions as you.

February 20 March 20

Youre a daydreamer.

Thats why it makes sense that you attract an outgoing, confident punch in of guy.

This guy is loud and out there; he brings you out of your shell.

That big personality you enjoy?

Its actually pretty cocky.

Marisa Donnelly is a poet and author of the book,Somewhere on a Highway, availablehere.