Sometimes, when you’ve been alone for too long, it’s easy to seduce yourself.
Hes got flaws, but who doesnt have some?
Surely I would want him to love me no matter how annoying or bitchy I get.
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Wasnt I shy once?
We see a lot of potential.
We dont see that were putting in way too much work for a relationship that isnt even official yet.
Suddenly, youre not dreading introducing them to the people in your life.
You know exactly where you stand with them.
Theres guys who dont bother with pretense.
They treat you with respect.
They talk about you to their friends.
They behave as though you are a couple, and theres no hysteria about getting tied down too soon.
Youre not afraid of being yourself.
Sometimes its tempting to soften our harsher sides in a relationship.
Not with the right person, though.
Just like you never have to make apologies for them, they never make apologies for you.
They like you for you, and they are with you for you.
you’ve got the option to count on them.
Answer: They just dont care.
When you date the right person, shit will get done.
They will treat no as a complete sentence.
Havent we all metone of those guys?
The ones who hear no and behave as though a negotiation has been opened up?
The right person will hear no and move the fuck on.
You wont have to make excuses for them because they will never trample your boundaries.
You will start feeling a lot better about your other relationships.
A person who lifts us up is a different matter.
You stand this little bit taller.
You feel this much better about your convictions.
Your boundaries are strong and there are clear lines in the sand.
you’re free to see clearly, now that you are no longer gaslighting yourself.
And that is a feeling beyond compare.
