Let’s face it, crazy women are great in bed.
Its on almost all their dating profiles:no drama.
This is a big fat lie.
This is as big a lie as the women who want a sensitive, nice guy.
Our actions reveal more than our words, especially when our words are BS!
Its not the crazy that we seek, its the side courses that go along with crazy.
Riccardo Fissore
For men who date crazy women, it can be more than one reason:
1.
They want to save the damsel in distress.
A woman in crisis appeals to a mans desire to be perceived as the hero.
If he can resolve her problem, he will feel needed and accomplished.
She may put on a big show of thanks which will feed his ego.
The damsel in distress speaks to a deep part of a mans nature to defend and protect.
For all the frustration and inconveniences she may bring he also gets a matching hit of success.
It feels good to be the hero.
They have a strong need to be needed.
Women want to be wanted and men need to be needed.
A woman who does not have all her ducks in a row is going to need someone to help.
What better way to reinforce his feeling of success than to be able to help someone?
Especially when the fruits of your efforts are clearly displayed.
About to lose your car?
Ill cover that payment!
Cant pay your rent?
Move in with me!
Often the desire to help is coming from a truly good place.
Our culture celebrates the independent woman who doesnt need a man.
She doesnt need him for protection, support, financial assistance, emotional comfort or even sexual pleasure.
As a result, a part of his natural need to be needed goes unfulfilled.
If we give no fucks then someone out there is going to get no fucks.
Her crises, demands and moods, while agitating, also make him feel very needed.
She cant live without him!
Look what a mess she is!
The lows are low but the highs are high.
After years of an emotional flatline, the roller coaster is a thrill!
Its easy to play the victim.
Women arent the only damsels in distress.
Some men like to have the crazy girlfriend because she gets him off the hook.
With someone else to blame, hes off the hook.
He called her a bitch in front of his friends?
Well did you hear she keyed his car?
A crazy bitch can also be used as an excuse to get out of responsibilities.
Doesnt feel up for helping his buddy move?
Her fault, some drama.
Always late meeting friends?
Must not be him.
If she cheated then his indiscretions are now justified.
It is all very convenient.
Crazy women are great in bed.
Lets face it, part of what makes a crazy bitch crazy is her lack of self-restraint.
She may be moved more by her emotions than logic.
Like the man who desires her, she is impulsive and gives in to pleasure and excitement.
If that is happening in the bedroom (or outside it) she will be all that and more.
A cautious woman will protect herself emotionally, sexually and physically from the unknown until she is certain.
A wild woman will jump in, get swept up, get caught in a moment.
Its all fun and games until someone gets a restraining order.
