Or another variation:I was so done with relationships, then suddenly I met my partner.
But are they really lucky or there are other deeper reasons behind this fortunate outcome?
They Are Being Themselves.
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They are being themselves and they let their authentic self be seen.
When meeting new people, they prioritize enjoying themselves over pleasing others.
When theyre being themselves, they feel more relaxed and confident, and that makes them more attractive.
This helps avoid rushing into false intimacy and build genuine relationships instead.
They Dont Have An Agenda.
I dont care what my date wants, I want them to follow my timeline.
When someone is not actively looking for a relationship, however, theyre done with having an agenda.
They have standards and boundaries, but they dont have a script their love life must follow.
They Dont Make Romantic Relationships The One And Only Focus In Their Life.
They dont see their partner as an individual whose feelings and behaviors might have nothing to do with them.
Subconsciously, they think their partner exists solely to write a love story with them.
They dont constantly take from these connections or expect these connections to meet all their needs.
They can meet their own needs and take responsibility for themselves.
Theyre Open To Trying Different Things.
Which leads us to the next point…
6.
Theyre Open To Connecting With Different People.
When people are done with finding a relationship, theyre done with putting themselves through emotional hell.
They learn to make themselves happy and prioritize their happiness.
They also develop a low tolerance for bullshit.
They would rather walk away and do life solo than stay in a bad relationship.
As a result, theyre more self-assured, carefree, and less stressed.
They carry themselves with love and respect and attract people who do the same.
See, when happy, self-fulfilled people meet, a good relationship is easy to happen.
