He doesn’t want you dating anyone else, but he doesn’t have plans to date you either.

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Updated 5 years ago,January 2, 2020

Hes not your almost boyfriend.

Hes just an asshole who picks and chooses when he wants to acknowledge your existence.

He’s Not Your Almost Boyfriend, He’s Just An Asshole

ŞULE MAKAROĞLU

He wants you to stay infatuated with him.

He doesnt want you dating anyone else, but he doesnt have plans to date you either.

He wants to know you arent going anywhere.

January Nelson

Hes not your almost boyfriend.

Hes just an asshole who texts you whenever hes wasted because he wants something from you.

Hes not your almost boyfriend.

Hes just an asshole who uses you for sex.

He expects you to give him exactly what he wants without any intention of giving you what you want.

Yes, he probably knows you want more.

He probably knows you would rather be in a serious relationship.

He probably knows it bothers you when he kisses other girls or waits weeks to answer your texts.

But hes choosing to ignore your feelings.

Hes choosing to pretend youre as comfortable with the situation as him because he doesnt want things to change.

He likes things exactly the way they are right now.

Hes not your almost boyfriend.

Hes just an asshole who leads you on because he likes the way you make him feel.

Hes too busy worrying about his own feelings, his own sense of worth.

When youre not around, hes not thinking about how much hes hurting you.

Hes thinking about how much someoneelsehas been hurtinghim.

Hes not your almost boyfriend.

In his mind, nothinghaschanged.

He doesnt think hes done anything wrong.

Hes not your almost boyfriend.

Hes just an asshole who gives youjustenough attention to keep you interested.

To keep you chasing after him.

To keep you from finding someone else who will treat you the right way.

Hes not your almost boyfriend, so yo, stop trying to date that asshole.

Stop settling for someone who doesnt appreciate you and everything you have to offer.