There is no need to brand something you have with another person as ‘seeing.’

It doesn’t mean anything.

You either want to be with someone, or you dont.

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Pablo Heimplatz

Its another semi-label to hide behind when people want to have their cake and eat it too.

Its having one foot over the line and the other ready to run.

Technically she isnt your girlfriend.

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Pablo Heimplatz

Technically you dont owe her honesty.

But thats crap- you know it.

There is no need to brand something you have with another person as seeing.

It doesnt mean anything.

You either want to be with someone, or you dont.

Youre either in or youre out.

And guys, if youre unsure then leave.

Dont waste anymore of this girls time.

Dont give her false hope if youre just going to make-out another random girl at a bar that night.

Because, silly boy, she already loves you.

She is so in, its embarrassing.

She wants you, just you.

And even though she wont admit it, she hopes you feel the same.

So dont keep answering her what are we?

with we are heading somewhere serious.

Dont play the part if you arent sure.

Dont fuck with her heart.

Dont keep her hanging on.

Be with her or dont be.

Dont become official and then lie about everything which happened before.

Dont break her trust before you even have it.

Because she deserves someone who knows what they want.

She deserves the chase.

She deserves to feel like no one else will ever catch your eye.

That you dont want anyone else.

She deserves a relationship, not to be seeing someone.

She deserves someone who knows what an amazing thing they have.

She deserves so much more than what you are giving her.

So decide, take the leap.