There are unique risks for men and women when it comes to STIs such as HPV.

So even if proper precautions are taken, there is still risk for transmission of STIs like HPV.

There is also a difference in the rates at which men and women may undergo STI testing in general.

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This discrepancy in whose pleasure is prioritized in hookups is inevitably gendered.

Men are socialized to feel entitled to sexual pleasure and to deprioritize womens needs and pleasure.

The result is women often have hookups that do not feel physically or emotionally healthy or satisfying.

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These inequalities can be present in more traditional monogamous relationships as well, although to a lesser extent.

Women can alsoexperience significantly more regretthan men after casual sex.

Otherstudiessuggest that forbothmen and women, casual sex was related to psychological distress such as depression and anxiety.

Clinically, I have seen that women experience more negative psychological consequences than men.

After engaging in hookup culture, women usually feel more lonely, rejected, and unhappy.

Usually, they are also worried about being judged by others for their behavior.

Men on the other hand usually feel more sexually satisfied, confident and happier.

Rollins advises, Above all else, listen to your body.

Rather, it is your gut.

Your gut sense will tell you when to approach or leave a situation.

Your gut sense will guide you towards safety.

And when they do participate, there can be unforeseen consequences.

We must also prioritize a womans pleasure and safety instead of simply catering to men.