Have you walked away from someone you loved because you know they dont love you?
I have been there.
Let me help you get through it.
Danielle Drislane
Check your story.
8 years ago, my husband walked out on me for his college girlfriend.
We had been married for 20 years and I was devastated.
I raged on about how he could do this to me, to our children?
I was angry and sad and out for revenge.
And then a friend gently reminded me that my story was perhaps a little bit off track.
Yes, he had walked out on me and that was completely unacceptable.
BUT we had been really, really unhappy for a long time.
Our kids were headed off to school and neither one of us knew if we were ready to reconnect.
It was entirely possible that we would have ended up divorced anyway.
He is her problem now.
Take inventory.
When we finally get away from that person, those things tend to recede into our memory.
So, make a list.
Keep that list close and refer to it when you are missing him.
You left this relationship for a reason.
Keep those reasons in mind daily going forward.
No contact.
I am here to tell you that closure is a myth.
So, when you have decided that the relationship is over cut him off.
Think about Oreo cookies.
You know how hard it is to eat just one?
Its the same with your man.
So, gono contactright away.
It will make the process way easier!
Do THAT thing.
Dont sit around feeling sorry for your empty space do something with it.
A client of mine broke up with a man she loved desperately but who couldnt commit to her.
I asked her to name a few things that she had always wanted to do.
One of the things that she came up with was writing.
you could simply write a blog and post it to a variety of platforms available online.
It was hard work for her, emotionally, but soon she started to get a following.
Other women who were going through the same things appreciated her written words and started commenting on her articles.
As a result, she built a small community of women who supported each other through the rough times.
What is it that you have always wanted to do?
Pick one thing and start doing it.
You have the time.Life is short.
Comfort yourself.
Your body and your spirit may feel broken but some nurturing will help them heal.
When my husband left me, I was left devastated and alone.
My days were endless and I didnt know how I was going to survive being alone.
I had nothing to do so I bought the Groupon and I made an appointment for a massage.
That massage was one of the best hours of my life.
From that day on, I would spend some time every day doing things to take care of myself.
Believe your love is out there for you.
That, if they break up with this person, they will be alone forever!
But that just isnt true.
There are many, many fish in the sea and there is one for you.
Moving on after letting go of someone who doesnt love you back is a very hard thing to do.
It will be difficult but it is possible!
I can promise you that your guy is out there!
You will find him if you’re free to let go of this guy and find yourself again!
