People who are assertive in relationship are people who know themselves and know what they want in a relationship.
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Updated 4 years ago,May 3, 2021
Are you wondering how to be assertive in relationships?
Is yours struggling, and are you worried that your lack of assertiveness may be part of the problem?
Vitor Pinto
I have built a business around helping people who are struggling in relationships.
Unfortunately, there are many people struggling because relationships are really, really hard.
So, let me share with you my secrets about how to be assertive in relationships.
When I was married, I knew I was unhappy, but I didnt know why.
When those things happen, I feel loved and I am happy.
If you arent self aware, take some time to develop that personality trait.
People who are assertive in relationships are very often self-confident.
And if you dont ask, you dont get.
Are you a good communicator?
If you are, great!
People who have astrong intuitionthat they can rely on are usually excellent at being assertive in relationships.
Because people who are intuitive trust their gut.
They trust that they know what they want and believe that their instincts around others are dead on.
If you dont already, listen when your gut tells you something.
If you have a feeling that something is off, trust that feeling.
Dont rationalize it away.
Being assertive in relationships is simply impossible without being resolute.
Do you know that person who just cant make up their mind?
Perhaps you see them in the mirror.
They know that they want something but cant quite put their finger on what it is.
How does one cultivate the personality trait of being resolute?
Choose one thing that is important to you and do it, no matter what.
Set your intention and dont let anything get in your way.
Dont spend your life and love allowing things to just happen, just hoping for the best.
Decide what you want in a relationship and go for it.
