Shes worth the fight.
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Updated 7 years ago,October 5, 2018
Nothing in life comes easy.
If it does, it probably isnt worth having in the first place.
Paolo Raeli
Instead of fighting for that difficult thing and then being proud of obtaining it, we settle.
I say this in every aspect of the phrase.
There is no such thing as TOO difficult, TOO damaged, or needing TOO much reassurance.
If shes difficult, I promise you, shes worth it.
She just wants to double-check youre worth seeing that.
Give her a reason to stay.
Give her a reason to allow herself to light up your world in a way youve never seen before.
More than likely, shes amazing and you kind of already know that youre just being a dude.
STOP BEING A DUDE.
Reassure her:Take the initiative to ask her how her day is.
Shoot her a text telling her shes beautiful just because.
Good morning and good night text messages go a long way.
It doesnt have to be extravagant, shoot; it doesnt even mean you have to go anywhere.
Plan something that seems as though you cared enough to think about her and spending time with her.
Date naps go a long way.
Everyone, including dudes, need some reassurance every once in a while.
Its a natural human emotion.
Make her feel like shes the only girl in the world or so Rihanna says.
Do everything you might to show her that all guys arent the same.
Being difficult is so frowned upon, but you find it intimidating yet amazing.
Shes worth the fight.
Relationships are work, but so is everything else in life.
If youre looking to fix a difficult girl, walk away.
She doesnt need fixing, she just needs you.
Make that phone call.
