And you might not see it, but youll be worthy of their love in return.
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Updated 7 years ago,March 17, 2018
Youre allowed to fall in love again.
It might seem backward, but heartbreak is forgiving.
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And you might not see it, but youll be worthy of their love in return.
It starts with hurting.
And while its not always clear why, we inexplicably find ourselves caught in the crossfire.
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And it will hurt.
It will hurt for so long youll begin to wonder what life felt like before there was hurt.
Youll build bridges, dig trenches, and construct walls so high no one could penetrate them ever again.
it’s crucial that you feel this hurt.
Let yourself cry, rip up the photographs, scream at the top of your lungs.
Let every aching part of your hurting exist without question.
The hurt needs to exist and it needs to be felt.
It hurts because it mattered, and theres no use telling yourself it did not.
Now you must heal.
For some it takes little, for others it takes lots.
But you must not deny yourself the time you’re gonna wanna heal.
There is no calendar to healing.
There is no day, no week, no month you should give yourself to feel better by.
Healing is not a singular action, its a process.
It wont happen overnight, and it wont happen without effort.
you better make changes.
Go shopping with you mom.
Let your best friend hold you.
Read the books you adored before love got in the way.
Sometimes we lose pieces of ourselves when we fall in love with another.
We give them parts of ourselves and we dont always get them back.
It leaves behind holes.
Holes that need attention and passion to be filled.
you’re gonna wanna take risks.
Think about the things you dreamt about and follow them with hunger.
Book one-way tickets, take the exciting job offer, adopt the dog at the kennel.
Find love in things you didnt know or forgot existed.
You have to fall in love with yourself again.
Not yourself with them.
The worst thing you might do in life is terminate the door because youre scared of whats behind it.
There is a safety in loneliness.
Theres security in being alone.
you’re gonna wanna be fearless.
Open your heart to the possibility of love.
Let down your guard.
It will be scary.
Your heart will race from the unknown and the possibilities that are ahead of you.
But you deserve to love and be loved.
No amount of heartbreak should keep that from you.
