You’re thinking through the eyes of other people.
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Updated 1 year ago,January 16, 2024
Brianna Wiest explains how to find your soulmate.
Hint Its a lot easier than you think it is.
(Cover photo by Leo Hidalgowww.instagram.com/yompyz/.)
Youre waiting until youre perfect.
Putting off love until youre good enough is not self-love.
Its self-preservation masked as self-love.
Youre looking for a super specific jot down of person.
Thats because bang out determines attraction, not compatibility.
Open your mind and your heart.
Let go of those ideas.
They were fiction to begin with.
Youve put your joy on hold.
Does your life consist of moredead time or alive time?
Are you putting your joy on hold until youve met someone who makes you feel happy again?
If youre waiting to be happy, youre waiting to live.
If youre unhappy before you meet someone, youll be unhappy with them.
Youre thinking through the eyes of other people.
Remember: the more happy you are with something, the less you need other people to be.
Youre hanging out with the wrong people.
And youre surprised that youre still single, too?
Youre getting too caught up on shallow crap.
This is not a love map, this is a twisted ego map.
None of these things translate to love.
None of these things are pre-determinants of whether or not you will have a happy and fulfilled life.
But do you know what is?
Whether or not you chose someone for shallow reasons, like appearances or cash.
That does determine whether or not youre going to be miserable down the line.
Be mindful of what it is you think youre looking for.
You arent really putting yourself out there.
If you want this, ask yourself what youre really doing to find it.
Chances are, the answer is not as much as you could be.
Youre assuming that you know best.
Maybe you dont know when the best moment for your soulmate to show up will be.
Stop assuming you know best.
Its not serving you.
Still need more advice on how to find your soulmate?
Check out Heres How To Find Your One True Soulmate Without Fail by John Alex Clark.
