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Good luck using these flirting tips!
1.Position yourself close to them:By positioning myself to be near someone without it seeming intentional.
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That way you get a lot of face time with the person for witty banter and eyelash batting.
Best done with mouth slightly open.
Take a second nice, long look, and moisten your lips with the tip of your tongue.
When done properly, men will have to adjust, women will squirm.
You didnt sit like that to touch them, it just happened and now youre comfy.
Shoulder to shoulder also works great!
Flirting isnt like oh youre so pretty/handsome its just making yourself seem chill and good to be around.
But that doesnt mean avoid compliments completely, but dont directly say youre face is nice.
Never act like someone else, this is possibly the most important of all of these.
You want them to like you, not the fake personality youve taken on to fake being interesting.
4.Ask some basicquestions:Ask questions about what they talk about, shows you care.
Be a good friend, dont have a bullyish personality towards them.
Dont make jokes at their expense, or at the expense of anything they care about.
5.Crack some jokes:Just be yourself.
My best advice is to just be yourself, crack some relevant jokes to your conversation.
If youre a male, learn about females.
Compliment the things that they worked hard on.
I will say that theyre awesome and so interesting, sometimes even call them hot.
So yay, I guess Im too subtle.
7.Make eye contact:Eye contact is important.
Most people are right handed and therefore right eye dominant.
8.Believe in yourself:The first step is to believe that you are someoneworth knowingand having fun with.
If you honestly believe in yourself, the rest flows naturally.
Have they touched any part of you while in conversation?
Are you the last person they look at when they say goodbye?
Once you get good at dipping in and out of someones focus, you start to notice things.
Like when you switch who youre looking at/speaking to during a conversation in a group.
(I know it high school behavior but it works for me.)
Eventually I got to sleep with them and date some.
12.Stand a little closer to them:As a lady, I get close to them.
Like stand a little closer when talking, casually touch their arm, shoulder, whatever.
Also initiate conversation, ask the person about themselves, show genuine interest in them as a person.
13.Treat them like a human being:Just be nice and treat them like a person.
If they are interested look for the signals.
Be okay with it and move on.
Girls are easy to make laugh.
Usually I just have to pull my pants down though!
A lot of times, itsactualteasing in a playful way.
I saw Ugli fruit at the grocery store and bought one.
On the date I told her, I have something back at my house for you.
Its very ugly and it made me think of you instantly!
I remembered how much you love them, so I got one for you.
Whatd you think I meant?
I will do that pretty regularly to women.
If I compliment them, or be nice, its going to be hidden by an insult or tease.
That way when it comes out what I actually meant, its that much nicer and sweet to say.
On Valentines day, I snapped the same girl a picture of a chocolate heart.
I told her it was for her.
She said that was sweet.
She responded with, Hey!
So heres the point, Im constantly teasing.
It doesnt matter if Im nice, it doesnt matter if Im a jerk.
I constantly switch between the two to make it a chaotic neutral with a girl.
Her feelings go up, they go down, and they constantly end up in the middle.
Thats all of how I flirt.
15.Actually introduce yourself:Just smile and introduce yourself.
Then the doors open.
So how do you like this place?
What are you drinking?
16.Show them pictures of dogs:I show pictures ofdogs.
It doesnt work that often but when it does you know she at least gotta be awesome.
Not grab their hand, but tap it a little.
What comes naturally for me is some mix of sarcasm and dark humor.
But thats the key comes naturally.
You cant really force any throw in of humor or else its not funny.
19.Live your best life to impress them:Step one: Care less about whether youre successful or not.
I know its tough.
Feel free to widen your audience of who you want to flirt with.
Step two: Be confident.
Eventually you get so good at it, you forget youre not confident anymore.
Step three: Be interested.
Dont attempt to one up, and dont attempt to solve their problems.
Step 5: Be funny.
Use your observational skills to point out the peculiarities and inconsistencies of life.
Step 6: Say yes when they ask you out.
Then just laugh and attempt to relate to them.
Then you sit close to them, pick a feature about them that you like, and compliment it.
Sometimes this can be used to tease a bit, and theyll come back and find you later.
Like their social media posts:By liking their Facebook posts.
22.Break the ice as early as possible:If they find you attractive it wont matter.
Im in my late 20s now, I dont have time to waste.
Once you break that ice its so much easier.
23.Compliment something subtle about themLDude… compliment things theyre less likely to hear.
If theyre ugly compliment something you’re able to find on their appearance.
If theyre pretty steer clear of commenting on his or her attractiveness.
Make them laugh and ensure youre enjoyable to be around.
24.Let yourself relax a little:Eyes are like windows into the heart.
Let the person take a deeper look inside.
Always be yourself, relaxed as possible.
I laugh at his jokes and I give a shot to make him laugh as well.
But yeah, never really work for me cause I ugly af.
Make some good friend out of it though, so all in all cant complain.
26.Just be yourself:When I was22and younger?
Get drunk ideally and make heavy handed passes at them with occasional success.
