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Updated 6 months ago,October 24, 2024
Lets talk about the art of flirting.
This is how to be a masterful flirt:
1.
First and foremost, remember that flirting is supposed to be fun.
Dont be all in your head about it, overthinking never brings any good to a situation.
Compliment him
Most men are starved for compliments… because who really gives them any?
Notice things about him and compliment him, it goes a long way.
Being a good flirt is about giving just enough to leave someone wanting more.
And a good compliment is really in the delivery, say it with confidence!
Look him in the eye, dont be shifty and mumbly and awkward about it.
An important thing to understand about men, in general, is that they universally crave appreciation.
He wants to be seen and appreciated for who he is.
Smile
You do not need to be some cold, aloof ice queen to rouse a guys interest.
There is nothing more disarming than a warm, genuine smile.
A genuine smile illuminates and radiates an infectious, positive vibe.
Its also important to always work on finding happiness and confidence within yourself.
When you do, you will effortlessly draw people in.
Use his name in conversation
I went on a first date with an incredibly charming man many moons ago.
And every time he did I felt like I was being shocked with electricity.
It was just so disarming and sexy!
Subtle touches
Again, this goes back to the concept of leaving him wanting more.
Nothing drives a man wild like a subtle, accidental touch.
Maybe its a high five that lingers a little too long, bordering on hand-holding.
Maybe you give his shoulder a gentle squeeze after he tells a funny story.
Whatever you do, just keep it subtle and sparse, no draping yourself all over him.
If hes interested, he will take it to the next level.
Eye contact
As they say… eyes are the windows of the soul.
Making eye contact creates a feeling of intimacy and closeness.
But again, flirting is about being subtle.
So dont keep your eyes fixed and focused on him, thats just too intense.
Just be engaged when hes talking to you, and then take breaks and let your gaze wander.
This is the real art of seduction!
Open body language
So much of communication is nonverbal.
Pay attention to your stance and your posture.
If youre stiff and rigid, you come across as insecure or he may think youre not interested.
Keep youre chin up, and stand tall with an open posture, this conveys confidence and confidence issexy.
Thats what makes flirting fun.
Thats what gets him thinking about you and wanting you more.
Dont tell him youre whole life story, this goes for in-person and over text.
Think of yourself like an onion, let him peel back the layers one at a time.
This is what will really drive him wild and get his wheels turning into gear.
There is nothing that sends the human mind into a tizzy like not knowing where we stand with someone.
So thats always where to focus.
You have to let go of the fears of rejection and youre insecurities.
