I get that text messages are infinitely more convenient.
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Updated 8 years ago,May 18, 2017
Get the guy to call you.
Its a phrase I find myself uttering more and more to a vast range of clients dating queries.
@ana_lombardini
How do I know if this guy is really interested?
How can I build confidence talking to men?
How do I stop meeting fuckboys and find a genuine guy?
Now, I want to help you with the hows.
But before I do, one word.
I get that talking to guys is something youre likely not used to.
@ana_lombardini
But when it comes down to it, there is only one reason not to practice this skill.
Fearing calling men is normal.
Be proud of it.
If means youre standing on the edge of your comfort zone, within one step of changing your life.
Think of the consequences of never changing, continuing to get the same results with men you have been.
Think of ending up long-term with another guy like your ex.
The whole process is summed up in 3 simple actions.
Step 1:At the end of an interaction, make clear youve enjoyed talking to him.
Step 2:Tell him playfully or positively to call you.
Step 3:If required, give him your number.
Now lets make it practical.
Heres a few examples of how to make that happen.
Tinder
Youve just matched a guy youre curious about.
The first 6-8 messages have been fun.
X
Text Message
Youre texting a guy you like whom you know from your friendship circle.
The conversation has gone 6-7 texts and isnt looking like it will end soon.
Hey, as much as Im enjoying this Ive gotta go meet a friend.
Call me tomorrow night after 7 Id love to continue this!
X
A guy whose profile you like messages you on Facebook.
You have no connections to him otherwise, but would love to get to know him better.
The two of you have been chatting, but it hasnt gone beyond basic messaging.
Hey, lets actually talk rather than boring FB!
Im off to gym now, but give me a call after 8 tonight.
Number is xxxx xxx xxx.
Be warned, Im super sassy!
Jess X
The Club
Youve met a guy and had a good 15 minutes chatting.
You decide its time to head back to your friends.
Hey, it was great meeting you!
Ive got to get back to my friends, but let me give you my number.
A House Party
Hes in your friendship circle, but you dont have his number.
You wind up chatting to him for a few minutes away from others at the party.
Give me your phone.
Ahaha, nice try, mister.
You think you played your cards that well do you?!?
Tell him to call you.
check that he has your number.
If he doesnt call you and wont meet up, you know his interest level.
When he continues to text, despite your repeated, playful hints, it clearly demonstrates he isnt serious.
Master the art of getting a guy to call you.
The sooner you do, the sooner youll find Mr.
Perfect for you -dialing your number.
