You want the guy’s heart not his eyes for a few moments.
But, this is where most people make a mistake
…a BIG mistake.
What mistake?
Rahul Anil
Some people confuse attracting someone …with attracting attention.
And this is the wrong approach.
The same goes for attracting a guys attention using superficial advices such as wear sexy clothes and so on.
Rahul Anil
You want the guys heart not his eyes for a few moments.
And thats assuming he doesnt see through the act of flicking your hair etc.
as a superficial act that makes you look insecure and desperate to him.
So how do I attract his attention to get at his heart?
Each of us has in our minda subliminal guide to our perfect partner.
This guide is built up, bit by bit, in our subconscious from the moment we are born.
Psychologists call this subliminal guide our Lovemap.
And a large part of our lovemap is constructed as a result of our unmet needs.
This can be done in several ways such as:
1.Examining the content of his facebook page.
2.Examining his hobbies and what has attracted him to these.
3.Examining major life setbacks he may have suffered.
4.Examining his relationship with his family and friends.
Such a guy wants to feel strong.
Then go one step further and compliment him on his mental strength too.
You are making him feel strong just like muscle building does.
Slowly the guy will begin to feel drawn to you emotionally and wont know why.
Remember, this guy is looking for a way to bring strength into his life.
Muscle building is one such way.
He would equate putting on a false front as a sign of weakness, not strength.
