You always were and continue to be far more powerful than you even know.
And you have the power to choose the kind of love you want in your life.
He pickedyou!And we feel that weve finally got that validation that were worthy of love.
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Without that validation from a guy were not sure of our own worth.
Well girl, not anymore.
I want you to haveso much confidence, so much self-worth, that youre going to turn things around.
I want you to remember that your worth isnt dependent on whether someone chooses you or not.
She doesnt have to make anyone want to be with her.
Its time for you to understand that you are the one doing the choosing.
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You have to remind yourself that you dont know anything about him yet.
Thats when youll begin to change and how you act when youre with him begins to change.
Thats exactly what you want.
Guys actually love this!
Theywantto have to winyouover.
They want to have to work hard to prove that theyre worthy of you.
Men are wired to be chasers.
This doesnt mean be arrogant or standoffish when you meet a man.
Allow yourself to be attracted to him, to smile, to feel those butterflies.
Those are all natural feelings and they give him the green light to pursue you.
Remind yourself that you really dont know anything about him yet.
Remind yourself that youre the one doing the choosing here, and that youre raising the bar.
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Youre not going to accept just any behavior.
Youre not going to accept him texting you last minute on a Friday night to hang out.
Youre not going to accept him leading you on and never calling.
Youre not going to accept casual hook-ups with no follow through.
Its you who has to teach him how to treat you.
Each of us teaches each and every man out there how to treat us.
And weve all been putting up with this stuff for too long.
There was another woman before you who put up with less than she really deserved.
Our own missed opportunities come and go.
Our own dreams never see their fulfillment.
Are you going to choose a guy who texts you at the last minute?
Youre going to make a stand for real love.
An old-fashioned kind of love that takes time, and risk, and commitment.
Remind yourself that you dont know anything about him yet.
This is about loving and honoring yourself so he can see the real, gorgeous, confident you.
