She knows how annoying her anxiety can be.
She knows it can strike at the worst times.
When her anxiety ruins plans, no one is more upset about it than her.

Elliott Dunning
Guilt tripping her about it isnt going to help the situation.
She already feels bad enough.
She doesnt need you to make her feel even worse about herself.

She doesnt need you to pile on the guilt.
She wishes she could stop herself from freaking out at the drop of a hat.
She wishes she could control her emotions, her heart rate, her breathing.
She wishes she knew all of the things that you have been wishing she would explain to you.
She doesnt want you to pity her.
She doesnt want you to feel bad for her.
She doesnt want to feel like youre doing her a favor by dating someone like her.
Most of the time, she wants you to treat her the same way you would treat anyone else.
She doesnt want you to tiptoe around her.
She wants you to be yourself around her.
But when her anxiety acts up, she wants your support.