How to tell if a guy really likes you and what to do about it.
This is a massive source of confusion for most women, actually for most people in general!
Its hard to see clearly when your heart is on the line and your emotions are activated.
Cassie Lopez
Sometimes this causes us to see what we want to see.
Other times were not being delusional… the situation is just straight-up confusing.
Now you really feel like youve been knocked sideways.
I know it feels confusing.
If a guy likes you… its obvious.
Usually, if a guy likes you it will be obvious.
It will be clear and obvious, with no room for doubt or discussion.
If you have to ask if he likes you… then it usually means he doesnt.
This is an important one.
If a guy likes you, his interest isnt going to turn on and off like a light switch.
Stop beating yourself up thinking about what you did wrong or what you wish you had done differently.
I promise it wouldnt have made a difference.
Youre just jackhammering your self-esteem into the ground by playing that game.
No one expects you to be at your best all day every day, thats an impossible standard.
But always be growth-oriented.
And if you do slip up, it will not scare away a guy who genuinely likes you.
If a guy likes you….
Your showing interest in him will be a good thing!
I think this idea gained traction because it is true that men are put off by neediness.
I need you to validate me otherwise I will suffer.
It is also off-putting to showsomuch interest and besoinvested in a guy you barely know.
If a guy likes you … he will be consistent.
The whole does he like me?
question gets confusing because its not so cut and dry.
If he was straight up ignoring you or rejecting you, then yes, its clear hes not interested.
Mixed messages are usually one clear message: hes unsure of you.
When a guy likes you, he will be consistent.
He will consistently call or text, there will be consistency in how often you see each other.
And there will also be an escalation.
You wont be stagnant.
If a guy likes you… you just need to exist.
You dont need to plot or plan or strategize or craft the perfect text.
You dont need to stage casual accidental run-ins.
You dont need your friends to talk to his friends.
What posts does he like?
Whos liking his stuff?
Stop working so hard, you dont need to do anything to get him to like you.
The right guy for youwantsto be with you and makes this known.
Thats all you gotta know!
