The foundation must be secure.
The foundation must be one of truth.
The foundation must be real.
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The foundation must be unbreakable.
A deep bond must be formed.
However, the question is: how do you make this kind of foundation?
I say that you fill it with truth because truth is love.
Then, the next question is: how do you fill it with truth?
I say that both partners must bring their true selves to the table from day one.
Additionally, both partners must go to the depths of the others soul and learn about each other.
However, they must continue to do so.
They must never stop learning about each other.
Unfortunately, not everyone comes to you with good intentions.
And sometimes they dont even know that they dont have good intentions.
Sometimes they didnt even study their own self.
So what makes you think that they are able to study another persons soul?
They havent learned how to do that yet.
As a result, one person usually ends up hurt.
Ive heard too many people question whether someone loves them or the idea of them.
I think that we can all relate.
I think that we have all felt this at one point or another.
Thinking about this question is scary because you dont really know the answer.
You cant know exactly what a person is thinking unless they tell you.
And even then, it is human to question if they are telling you the truth.
You should pay attention.
They tell you I love you very quickly.
There is no appropriate time as to when someone should tell you that they love you.
Love has no timeline, and it comes on its own.
They might not take love as seriously as you.
I know that some people believe in love at first sight.
However, even those people will usually wait to let the other person know how they feel.
They dont take a stab at know the real you.
Are they paying attention to what you like?
Are they studying you?
Are they searching for your core?
Do they care about what moves your soul?
Do they know what makes you sad?
Do they know about your past?
Do they care about what hurts you?
Do they know what makes you happy?
This is a red flag.
They give a shot to be someone they think you will like instead of just being themselves.
Did you ever meet someone who changes who they are to make it get you to like them?
Did you ever meet someone who lied about what kind of music they liked?
I know that this doesnt sound like a big deal, but it eventually will be.
These small lies add up.
Their true colors will eventually be exposed.
As a result, they cant know you.
Therefore, they cant love you.
They can only love the idea that they have created.
They say things that arent genuine.
If you ever feel in your gut that what someone is saying isnt genuine, then it probably isnt.
They are set on a particular kind of future with you without even discussing it with you.
You shouldnt stay in this situation for another second.
They become complacent after they have you.
Have you ever felt someone stop making an effort so quickly?
This is a sign that the challenge to get you is now over.
This usually means that they were in love with the idea of winning you over.
Their ego is now fulfilled.
