Do you enjoy giving to your partner and much as he or she gives to you?
If not, they might love you more than you love them.
Its a really important question to ask.
Alex Holyoake
You know what love is and you feel it.
Do you know the difference between being in love with someone and loving someone?
It is very important to understand the difference between the two.
When you see your person, your heart leaps a little bit.
You long for their touch, and you want to know everything about them.
Spending time together is lovely, and you care about their hopes and dreams.
So, how do you feel when you see your person?
Does your heart leap or do you just feel peaceful?
Its an important distinction and one that only it’s possible for you to know.
Things are evenly balanced.
When love is uneven, more often than not, one person is giving way more than the other.
And both sides are uncomfortable with this.
What does your relationship look like?
Do you enjoy giving to your partner and much as he or she gives to you?
If not, they might love you more than you love them.
They dont bug you.
You are always happy to be with them and their attentions dont cause you any aggravation.
Do you find that your partner bugs you in a way that feels uncomfortable to you?
Do you wish you were more receptive to their attention?
If the answer is yes, you might not love them as much as they love you.
You arent always questioning the relationship.
Do you think that you want to be in this relationship but just arent sure?
Do you think about whether you are making a mistake in committing to this person?
Do you spend time thinking about other people instead?
Do you find yourself rationalizing your relationship more often than not?
People who love someone else as much as they love them dont constantly question the relationship.
Your attention doesnt wander.
Do your friends introduce you to other people who they think might be better for you?
People who are in love with their partner dont go seeking other potential mates.
What about you?Do your eyes wander?
So, how do you know if you love someone as much as they love you?
It seems like a difficult question to answer, but really, the signs are clear.
If things are balanced, yay!
