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Updated 6 years ago,March 2, 2019
Have you discovered that your partner has been cheating?
Do you hope nonetheless for a reconciliation?
Are you wondering if surviving infidelity without counseling is possible?
Jacob Postuma
Let me walk you through how surviving infidelity without counseling is possible.
Is the other person completely out of the picture?
Working on a marriage when the other person is still around is literally impossible.
Your partner and their lover are connected in a deep way.
So the first step in all of this is ensuring the other person is gone.
Only once that is the case can you proceed to the next steps.
Do you genuinely want it to work?
Your partner has done the unimaginablethey have fooled around on you.
They have betrayed the commitment you have made to each other.
They have broken your heart.
This is a key part of surviving infidelity without counseling.
Being determined doesnt guarantee success, but without out it, you are doomed to failure.
Can you still communicate with each other?
Communication is the most important tool for fixing what is broken.
You will need to understand each others wants and needs and be committed to making change.
Can you let go of the anger?
Your partner has fooled around on you and of course you are ANGRY.
But can you let go of it and move on?
I know letting go of anger is easier said than done, but it is possible!
This final piece is really important: can you forgive your partner?
Forgiveness is a key part of surviving infidelity.
Again, you have been betrayed.
It is possible to forgive even if its not possible to forget.
So, take some time.
Do some reading about forgiveness, what it means, and how to get there.
See if you could forgive your partner and move on.
Surviving infidelity without counseling might seem impossible.
Every day, many couples come back from the betrayal of infidelity and live happy lives together.
Good luck with this next period in your life.
you’re free to do it!
