Why was it that my ex-boyfriend, my first true love and I, were continually on and off?
Well because at the time, my life kind of did.
WARNING: This pattern willnevermake you happy in the long run.
I had a friend who was gorgeous, successful, and fun to be around.
She couldve easily had her choice of men.
She fell for a guy, well call him B, who was already in a serious relationship.
In fact, he lived with his girlfriend.
Theyd fool around at her apartment when his girlfriend thought he was out with friends.
This should have been a dream come true, right?
Wesley Balten
Except it wasnt.
She clung to him, going through emotional hell, hoping hed leave his girlfriend.
And when he finally did, there were naturally trust issues.
Why did she settle?
Asking yourself this question, why, can be extremely illuminating.
There is a reason youre doing this because itactually gives you something.
You might be thinking, Why the hell would I purposely go after a guy whos emotionally unavailable?
What would this give me?
If youre currently stuck in this cycle then I feel for you girl.
But do yourself a favor and choose dignity and respect.
If this guy that youre into simply isnt coming around, it may be time to go another direction.
A direction that is worthy of you.
