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Updated 4 years ago,March 3, 2021
Trust me, you know.
I think its something you always know, too.
But you pushed for it anyway because you had hope, you had love.
John Sting
You think that is all that you needed.
Turns out you need much more.
You need someone who will look at you the way you look at them.
You need someone who sees everything in the world and can somehow tie it back to you.
Someone who loves all your little quirks even when they cant stand them.
Someone who believes you to be capable of anything you try your hand at.
Its difficult when you truly believe some is it.
They are everything you want.
But it isnt right.
You arent that for them and thats okay.
you’re free to still love this person, sure, as hard as you want.
But you have to transform that love into something you experience from a distance.
You dont have to let them go immediately, not yet.
But you do have to allow yourself to grow apart from them.
Frankly, you have to buck up and give yourself the room to become yourself without their influence.
Dont take this the wrong way but this will not bother them.
This is a good thing.
You need this indifference toward your feelings so that become who you deserve to be.
Perhaps this distance will give you a chance to work some things out for yourself.
Nobody is perfect and maybe a little self-reflection could do you some good, too.
These situations are opportunities for much better things, much better people, and much better versions of you.
Be happy when these chances to grow present themselves, they are almost always blessings in disguise.
