A relationship is not something she must have to feel complete, but a connection she wants.
But when love finds her, her way of life is challenged (in good ways).
Dont come in and trample through her garden.

Paul Van Bloem
Dont destroy her flowers to plant your own.
And grow alongside her.
Show her that youre there and that her thoughts are important to you.

Show her that you want to be by her side.
Show her that youre not leaving.
When she falls for you, she wants to know you.

Paul Van Bloem
Show her who you are and who youve been, where youve gone and what has created your strength.
Show her how beautiful it is to open your heart and life to another person.
No matter how big her affection grows for you, she will still crave her aloneness.

Do not worry that shes wandering off with someone else or any less passionate about you.
Do not think that shes pulling away, or not interested.
She craves her alone time; she needs her own space.
This doesnt mean shes not into you.
hey dont mistake her as noncommittal, and hey dont distance yourself in response.
She wont always fall easily.
But also be patient.
Know that shes just getting used to sharing her love with someone else.