Shes a special person, the woman who never had any help.
She is strong, independent, and protective of the life she spent so much effort building.
This means that loving herand earning her loveis nothing if not a challenge.
kevin laminto
Put in the work.
She is worth every bit of effort you devote to her.
You may find her resilience and intelligence incredibly attractive, but like, do not waste her time.
Take the time to get to know why she operates the way that she does.
She has been through enough to cut off anyone who squanders her time.
They never took the time to find out who she is deep down and celebrate it.
They did not nurture her, cherish her, or make her feel safe.
Show her the parts of your soul that not many get to see.
Show up for her when she believes no one ever will.
Be her partner in all things, and have her back even when she does not need it.
After all, shes never had someone there to help.
Be her unexpected relief.
Earning her trust and her respect takes time.
Be steady, be secure, and just show up.
Show up every single day.
Stay when she figures that youll run.
Talk to her instead of dismissing her fears.
Respect her space, set reasonable boundaries, and listen to what she needs from the relationship.
Communication will set you both free.
Be patient with her, and youll see that what blossoms between you is worth all of your effort.
She may be used to surviving all alone, but that doesnt mean she prefers it that way.
Be her excitement, her joy, and most of all, her partner in life.
Give her the steady love shes always wanted.
In return, she will give you more happiness than you ever imagined.
