Know that she is a go getter.
Know that she is a strong woman.
She isn’t with you for fun, or for a fling.
God & Man
She is with you for the real deal.
She is with you because she sees something good in you.
She is fierce and doesnt want to be tamed.
Dont give a shot to change her.
Dont take a stab at turn her into something she is not.
She was not made to sink and to bend.
God & Man
She was made to swim and fly.
She was made to shine so brightly.
So dont even attempt to dim her blinding light.
Know that she does not need you.
She does not need you to be happy or to feel fulfilled.
But she loves you.
And trust me, she had a lot of options.
So love her back.
Show up when she is silent at night and you know something is bothering her.
She is not made of steel even though she thinks she is.
She is going to break sometimes.
She is going to tear.
She is going to crash.
Dont you dare give up on her when she gives up on herself.
Dont turn your back on her.
Yes, she doesnt need you.
But she will want you to be there.
She will want you to show her that you give a damn.
She will want you to show her that you wont go anywhere.
That you actually live up to your promises.
Dont act like shes your possession or prize.
She is a human being.
Treat her like one.
Know that she is a go getter.
Know that she is a strong woman.
She isnt with you for fun, or for a fling.
She is with you for the real deal.
She is with you because she sees something good in you.
She is with you because she sees a future.
Because you are someone special.
And she deserves something special.
She wont take shit from you.
She wont take your crap, your games, or your nonsense.
She is not going to put up with that.
She knows her worth.
Be honest with her.
Tell her how you feel.
Dont beat round the bush.
Dont hide from your feelings and from what your heart is telling you.
Be a good man.
Be a decent man and be a better man for her and for her future.
If you feel your feelings are fading dont stick around.
If you feel like your heart is slowly distancing itself from hers, leave.
Dont lie to her.
She is strong enough to handle your leaving.
She is strong enough to handle your wreckage.
Oh and if you break her heart?
She wont ever take you back again.
She wont ever look at you in the same light.
She wont ever smile at you in the same way again.
But she will move on.
Its what shes good at.
Surviving and growing and blooming.
She will survive without your love.
Believe me, she will do more than just survive.
She will do so much more.
