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Updated 7 months ago,September 29, 2024
Take the long way home.
Observe the way they wake up and take note of what makes them laugh.
Know when its about them and when its about you.

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Find the spectacular in the mundane.
Ask them to text you when they get home, to work, to their vacation destination.
Be infinitely curious about how they live their days.

Make room on the couch.
Embrace the fact you dont know whats best for them.
Practice trust, even when its scary (especiallythen).
Keep both feet on the ground.
Throw away the scorecard.
Kiss like you mean it.
Accept that it can be really hard to merge two paths; keep trying to anyway.
Give them the aux cord.
Give them the last fry.
Give them the last word, even if yourereallyfucking pissed.
Figure out what is worth the fight and what is not.
Save them a seat.
Notice the scattered gold flecks in their eyes.
Tell them youre proud of them; tell them this often.
Dance in the kitchen.
Play hide-and-seek in the grocery store.
Point out the dip in the sidewalk.
Offer your world.Know when its time to lovingly let go.
Know when you oughta hang on like hell.