I cannot fake feelings, I cannot create passion.
Yet, I can tell you how to manipulate feelings.
Jealousy is one of the strongest feelings of all.
Thought Catalog Agency
You almost have to act relieved like he is doing you a favor by breaking up with you.
you oughta become better, and it needs to be apparent to everyone.
Start simple by going to the gym as much as possible.
Get a trainer if you could.
The revenge body is a real thing, and it is effective.
Become hotter than you were when you with him.
Do not forget to take lots of photos and look happy.
Make it known you look better, and you are happier now.
If you were close to his friends,stayclose to them.
Remember what they say: Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer.
Do not talk about him to his friends.
Act like you have forgotten about him because you are so busy.
Also start distancing yourself from his group, especially if this is fresh.
This is a battle, and you do not want to go in like a basket case.
attempt to get a promotion or a new job, anything that can impress them.
A new body is not enough, you better have it all.
Do you have a dream?
Do you want to go to law school someday?
Do you want to write a book?
Do you want to be on a cover of a magazine?
Start making that happen.
He will be so immensely jealous and proud of you for starting to make your dreams a reality.
Change is scary, but drastic times call for drastic measures.
Now it is time to start being petty.
This is where the real fun starts.
Closure is not worth your dignity right now.
When men are done with a relationship, they want to feel like they have destroyed you.
It is their worst nightmare to find out you were always so much better off without him.
He realizes he was the one who was holding you back.
He will probably try and chase you because men always want what they cant have.
Now, this is the moment of truth.
He wants you back, and this is where I leave you.
This is your window.
This is your moment to say everything you never said.
Maybe you will want him back now and maybe you wont (think Elle Woods rejecting Warner).
Trust me that love triangles are more messy than romantic.
Thats my last piece of manipulative advice.
The rest is up to you.
