What true, real BDE comes down to is being secure in being insecure.
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Updated 6 years ago,October 5, 2019
Im sure youve heard about BDE.
Its a bit of swag.
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Its a quiet self-assured presence that emanates from someone who knows they can back it up.
Its not just for dudes.
Women can have it.
That person has everything figured out.
They have BDE because theyre so sure about everything.
But Ive realized that BDE actually comes from the opposite.
You know youve got what it takes to figure it out.
You have faith that you will.
BDE comes from owning that truth.
It comes from owning that youre nervous, that youre awkward.
It comes from owning that shitty dad joke you said for the fifth time.
Its all about being secure in being insecure.
Youve got the shit to back it up.
Nah, your confidence comes from your spiritual BDE.
Know who Im talking about?
That cool calm guy talking about the best deals and rates.
He knows hes got it.
He knows hes proven it before.
He knows he stands by something that speaks for itself.
BDE = half confidence from passion and half being secure with being insecure.
So, my advice for you to build your subtle confidence is twofold.
Stand for something anything.Stand for being kind.
Stand for being empathetic.
Stand for your passion.
you’re free to be confident in that!
Youll come to realize that youre not just projecting confidence.
Its not fake it till you make it confidence.
Its not a facade.
Do you want that?
Do you want to feel calm and assured in yourself?
It comes from not feeling calm.
It comes from not feeling assured in yourself.
It comes from not ignoring that.
It comes from owning those feelings.
You dont have to be some celebrity to have BDE.
You dont have to have some amazing job or be uber successful.
You dont have to be snapping necks and cashing checks.
You dont have to be verified on Instagram.
That is what builds confidence.
That is what builds BDE.
That is what sets you free.
