Its not that I dont believe in soul mates and Mr.
Right but I think there can be more than one person who fits that role.
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Updated 7 years ago,June 16, 2018
Youve been seeing someone for a little while now.
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Theres attraction, youre having fun together, you like him and he likes you.
Its leading in the direction of having the talk to know if youre exclusive.
Is he The One?
I get asked this question all the time about how my husband and I met.
Did I immediately know that he was The One?
How many dates did it take?
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What helped me to make that decision?
Look at how diverse and varied and unique you are.
There are parts of you that are drawn to one person over another.
And parts of you that are drawn to other people simply because youre such a multi-faceted woman.
We had that eyes meet, lightning strikes, deep attraction and love.
But there were parts of our relationship that were also toxic, as well as parts that were beautiful.
With my husband our relationship started out differently.
I am very happy with him and know hes a great partner to build my life with.
But this is what causes so much heartbreak and pain.
Particularly, how you feel around him and how he treats you.
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That question is this:
Are you talking yourself into, or out of, the relationship?
This isnothow to make a decision when youve just met someone.
The reason this question works is because it digs deep into your fears.
I know my family doesnt really like him, but they just dont know him like I do.
Therefore you try talking yourself out of the relationship.
Choose happiness, beautiful.
