Well, its so obnoxiously true!
When I was single, I desperately craved a steady relationship.
I feel guilty just writing it out.
DeMorris Byrd
I love my husband and my son to pieces and cant imagine life without either of them.
I love being a mom so much more than I thought I would.
But I do miss being single sometimes.
My husband says I romanticize single life and thats only partially true.
You never again will have a chance to focus exclusively on yourself and your own happiness.
Here are some ways to love being single:
1.
Realize you’re able to do whatever the F you want!
You are free to just do what you want.
You are only responsible for your own needs.
You have the time to work on yourself.
The reason I was so happy as a single person is because I really worked on myself.
I wasnt always that way.
And then I got a grip and changed my attitude.
I worked on myself and lived my best and happiest life.
Finding the right guy is not going to solve your problems.
It wont suddenly grant you a sense of self-esteem or worth.
you should probably fix these things on your own.
Having a partner can enhance your happiness but it cantbeyour happiness.
If youre single, now is the time to make yourself Into who you want to be!
It doesnt get any easier when youre in a relationship, and forget it when you have kids.
Now is the time to get a handle on yourself.
To think deeply about yourself and what you want in life and what is holding you back.
Travel, a lot!
Dont put limits on yourself.
you’re free to travel while single, and then travel more when you find the right partner.
Traveling is exciting and thrilling and can lead to self-discovery so just do it!
A sad fact of life is that friendships change as you move through lifes stages.
Thats not to say you wont have friends anymore, but those relationships wont be the same.
Now is the time to nurture those relationships and enjoy having that support because its a really beautiful thing.
Dont get sucked into negativity.
What exactly does thinking the worst ever accomplish?
Panicking and stressing over your single status will never take you to a good place.
There will be days when its hard and lonely, but try not to feed into it.
