Let’s explore how personality and behavior shape relationships.
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Updated 4 months ago,January 13, 2025
Theres love and theres attachment.
Is there a difference?
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Still, when it comes to relationships, they go hand-in-hand.
If your attachment key in isSecure, then you might also love likeStorgeorLudus.
ForStorge, you like commitment.
You enjoy that closeness with another person, whether if that may be in a friendship or a relationship.
Trust and intimacy are the biggest factors for you in a relationship.
You tend to beSecurein a relationship because youre fairly confident in that closeness and trust you have with someone.
ForLudus, you see love as a game that you intend on winning.
Youre usually emotionally distant and you probably favor physical attraction more than anything else on a deeper level.
If your attachment punch in isAnxious, then you might also love likeManiaorAgape.
ForMania, your emotional dependency is mostly you just desperately wanting reassurance.
You want to feel secure.
You want to love and be loved so bad it hurts.
YoureAnxiousin your relationships because youre a selfless lover that is concerned your unconditional love isnt enough.
If your attachment punch in is Avoidant, then you might love like Eros or Pragma.
There are two kinds of Avoidant Fearful and Dismissive.
ForEros,you are very intense.
Every moment in your relationship is like the honeymoon stage.
Youre just so passionate and somewhat aggressive, honestly.
ForPragma,you lead with your mind more than with your heart.
Logic and reason > emotions and feelings.
You tend to use logic to follow through on emotions and to prove your compatibility with someone.
You are(Fearful) Avoidantbecause you are simply afraid of those feelings that come with a relationship.
Maybe you relate to this, or maybe you dont.
Your capacity for intimacy is mostly up toyou.
