I am tired of thinking that everyone else deserves more than I do.

I am tired of being the giving one.

The one with all of the answers.

Girl who is finished putting herself last

Pexels / Daria Shevtsova

I cannot keep trying so hard to double-check that everyone is okay when I am secretlynotokay.

Beingtoo niceis slowly destroying me.

It is making me more stressed.

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It is making me feel less alive.

I cant keep bending over backwards for everyone else and neglecting myself.

I cant keep putting my needs last.

Girl who is finished putting herself last

Pexels / Daria Shevtsova

I cant keep treating my mental health as an afterthought.

From now on, I am going to put myself first.

I am going to do what makes me happiest.

Even though my natural instinct is to help others, I am allowed to sayno.

I am allowed to take a day to myself.

I am allowed to choose the selfish answer over the selfless one.

I am allowed to place myself ahead of others.

I do not owe anyone anything.

I am not meant to save them.

Cut toxic people out of my life.

Surround myself with positivity.

Allow myself to chase after my dreams.

Allow myself to reach for success.

I deserve to experience happiness.

I deserve to smile authentic smiles.

I have been putting too much on my plate at once.

I have been running around, helping everyone else, while letting myself suffer.

I am tired of putting myself last.

I am tired of thinking so poorly of myself.

I am tired of thinking that everyone else deserves more than I do.

From now on, I am going to treat myself as a first priority.

I am going to take care of myself mentally and physically.

I am going to love myself the way I deserve to be loved.