You are never stuck in your situation.

You are never obligated to continue on an uncomfortable path.

You are allowed to change course.

I Am Slowly Learning To See The Beauty In Breakups

Savs

You are allowed to rearrange your priorities.

You are allowed to walk away from a situation stunting your growth.

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Updated 6 years ago,February 3, 2019

You are never stuck in your situation.

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You are never obligated to continue on an uncomfortable path.

You are allowed to change course.

You are allowed to rearrange your priorities.

You are allowed to walk away from a situation stunting your growth.

I am slowly learning to see the silver lining in breakups.

Losing love is something to mourn but it is also something to celebrate.

Breaking up means you are given a fresh chance.

It means you get to take another crack, to feel butterflies again, to share first kisses again.

I am slowly learning to see the benefits they can bring.

It is going to strengthen you.

Breakups completely upend your world and that is not always negative.

When the person youve spent ninety-nine percent of your time with leaves, you have hours of untouched time.

you’re able to doanything you wantwith that time.

you’re able to travel.

you’re able to meet up with friends you havent seen.

you might pursue a new passion.

you could cycle your search for love.

They push you to take a step back and examine your life, your choices, your paths.

They make you wonder whether you are living up to your full potential.

After a breakup, you might make a small change like dying your hair or updating your wardrobe.

Or you might make a bigger change like moving across the country or switching careers.

Breakups remind you the way you are living is not theonlyway to live.

At any point, you could make a change.

At any point, everything can be different.

Breakups give you a push to revitalize your life.

They are an incentive to change the way you have grown used to living.

They are a reason to break free from your comfort zone and take more risks.

I am slowly learning to see the beauty in breakups.

Losing love is never easy but it can be a catalyst.

It can be the shove you should probably send your world hurdling in the right direction.