I am slowly learning your twenties are supposed to be confusing.

They are supposed to make you question yourself.

You have to find a full-time job.

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Pay for your own meals and car insurance and rent.

Build up your credit.

Start saving for retirement.

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Take steps toward finding your dream job and dream house and dream person.

You have to get your shit together.

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It feels like you are trapped in the middle of two separate identities.

I am slowly learning there is a good reason why you feel so confused in your twenties.

At that age, your friend group is mixed.

You have friends who are already wearing engagement rings and pushing around strollers.

You have other friends who are getting wasted every weekend and not arriving home until two in the morning.

Youre not sure which is normal.

Youre not sure if youre ahead of the partiers or behind the homebodies.

I am slowly learning the truth is that there is no set path.

There is nothing youshouldorshouldntbe doing by this age.

You are allowed to move at whatever pace that makes you feel comfortable.

And there is nothing wrong if you are already settled down with a family of your own.

No choice is better than the other.

They are just different.

Everyone travels along different different paths.

Every journey has their own destination.

I am slowly learning your twenties aresupposedto be confusing.

They are supposed to make you question yourself.

They aresupposedto be a complete shitshow.