Dont ever wonder if someone loves you, because if they did, I promise you would know.

Not everyone will fight for you; in fact, most wont.

Relationships are hard enough when both people are making an honest effort.

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Chad Madden

You dont stand a chance when only half of the relationship is trying.

It feels easier to blame until we rationalize things ending or never beginning.

We use timing to justify rejection.

We blame people outside of the relationship instead of faulting the people inside.

We do anything to distract us from reality, wishing that we could travel to another time and place.

If they didnt put in the work, you have your answer.

If they didnt meet you halfway, you were never going to be close enough.

If they didnt invest the time to learn about you, they were never really interested.

Dont love someone who doesnt love you back.

I know it doesnt feel like a choice, but at some point it is.

When someone stops trying in a relationship, it doesnt mean you oughta work twice as hard.

Instead, work twice as smart.

Take care of yourself today and youll thank yourself tomorrow.